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What was the moment you knew your relationship was over?

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When I realized I dreaded Fridays, our standard date night, and saw it as something I needed to get past before I could start enjoying the weekend.

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Damn, that really sucks. My wife and I are going through some stuff (kids), but I still so look forward to date night with her. Thanks for giving me that perspective.

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when i started hating the occasional pity invite to a quick coffee and cake. because she’s always busy with work or mostly her family to be with me

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I was in the same situation. My ex wanted all of my time. I tried to end things (it had been about six months) but he wouldn’t let me go. He became verbally abusive and would throw things. I was stuck in it for a total of three and a half years. I finally left when he punched me in my mouth for “being late to his house.” Now in 2022, I am married to a man who is kind and loving and who I want to do everything with. I look forward to hanging out with him every day.

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My advice is don’t plan date nights more than 2 days out. Do them when they feel like you want them. You don’t have to do them every week.

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彼女が俺の猫のMr.ヌードルを毒殺したとき。 RIP

She poisoned my cat Mr Noodle
Edit: Thanks everybody for the support, and if you’re asking: yeah I got the police involved

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なんてこった!これはひどい。心からお見舞い申し上げます。RIP Mr.ヌードル
Oh god! That’s awful; my heart goes out to you. RIP Mr. Noodle.


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My ex & I were not living together, but he had the key to my place. I told him that I was gonna go see my parents for the weekend, but then changed my mind last minute because I started feeling sick. I forgot to tell him & just went home after work & went to bed. I woke up around 10pm to get a glass of water & while I was in the kitchen I heard someone fumbling at the door with the lock. I freaked out because I lived on the 17th floor, so if it was a break in, I was f**ked. All of a sudden he walks in….. dragging a tipsy girl in behind him.
I just stood there while he tried to make up some sort of excuse as to WHY he was there. The girl was pretty shocked too.

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That is a whole new level of disrespect. Cheating is bad enough but using your place to do it? What a creep!

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Why did he take her to YOUR place?!

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Oh, you poor dear. That’s terrible.

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When after 7 years, a particularly cold conversation, and with tears in my eyes I said, “I just want you to love me” and she said
“Well I dont, and dont you feel pathetic for having to ask?”
Edit: Thank you so much for the kind replies everyone, it means a lot <3
This was 5 years ago now and I am doing so much better. The best love is self love.

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Oh jesus, glad you got out of that one

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Holy shit.

What a cold thing to say. Truly Disney villain-sounding

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When even just asking to hang out, felt like a chore. It just wasn’t worth it anymore more.

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When she came up on caller id and my first thought was “Ugh.”.

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I had a similar feeling in my first marriage. I’d come home, turn onto our street, see her car already in the driveway, and have the same feeling… “ugh”.

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I would always be the one to initiate talking and taking part in activities together. I realized I was the only one putting effort in.

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I feel that. She never once tried to do anything. I planned my own birthday date

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This, with the addition of me being the only one to take care of houshold chores, too, while he did nothing but sit at his PC or sleep. It was painful to live together and still get ignored 24/7.

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They did say ‘was’. Hopefully meant it.

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I left, and I’m glad I did that

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When I saw how she completely changed when her boss was around. She became much more pleasant, flirty, and amenable. That’s when I realized the only reason she was dating me was in hopes it would make her boss jealous enough to leave his wife for her.

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Oooff that’s rough

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I do not understand how people think you can date someone else and it’ll make the person you actually want more attracted to you

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Hope she was surprised when you dumped her (and that her boss also saw through her).

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You can see it in their eyes when they don’t love you anymore.
I’ll never forget that feeling.

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Ouch, this hurts like hell

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Makes you truly empty inside

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When you dread her name coming up on caller ID because you knew it was an argument about nothing. Don’t settle for an angry life.

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I was at my best friend’s wedding. When he saw his bride walking down the aisle, he had a grin so big it looked like it could have exploded right off of his face. He was so happy to be marrying this person. And when I thought about my, now-ex, gf I realized that I just didn’t feel that way about her.

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Found n*de pictures of her and some other dude on the family camera and they were taken on our couch in our living room in our house.

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The day my mom passed away (the coroner hadn’t even come for her body yet) with zero consideration on how I felt and what I was going through my ex-fiancé thought it was great idea and a good time to tell me he has been cheating on me for the last 6 years, and how sorry he was for it.
He wasn’t sorry he did it, but he sorry because the other woman had lied to him about who she really was and he wanted me to comfort him because he felt betrayed by her….
When I promptly broke up with him, he asked “wait is this really goodbye?” how could you do this to me now?

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What the f**k

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What in the actual f**k is wrong with some people. They have no concept of reality or other people’s feelings.

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When she started being cold to me, and being unsure about our relationship. Then she started talking about this “guy” from her class. You know the rest.

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When she choose the night before my finals (exactly 2am – finals were at 8am) to confess to cheating basically. Ruined my final exams that sem.

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Worst time to reveal something like that

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SAME. My ex had been cheating on me with one of my best friends for half a year and he told me everything five days before a really important exam. He messed up until the very end.

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What a bitch. She definitely wanted to add insult to injury. You’ll be much better off without someone so toxic.

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When I was going through a miscarriage and he couldn’t take me to the ER because he was in fantasy leagues and football was on.

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Damn that goes way beyond just not loving you anymore and into worthless piece of shit territory.

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There are no words for this

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I hope that I never meet someone this evil.

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He had a can of drink, asked if anyone wanted any (we were in a group)..I said yes please so he poured it in the bin.
Sounds minor, but this was the last thing after alot of shit.

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Doesn’t sound minor

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When we were arguing for the umpteenth time and I lost the will to continue. I usually begged her to stay but I just told her to go

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I got into a car accident and called him and he didn’t care

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I’m trying to understand what kinda human cant even pretend to care and the more I try, the sadder I get.

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When I found out she was sending n*des to people on discord. Had a gut feeling it would go past just pictures and I was right.

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Life was stagnant.
We mutually called it quits after we had a talk, and it went better for both of us. We gave it the good ol’ college try but we still grew apart.

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When she repeatedly slammed her head through the wall claiming a demon was telling her to do it, and then threatened to call the cops and say I beat her up.

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I hope you recorded that

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Definitely didn’t, as our brains are not thinking clearly in these moments, but I’m glad she’s much healthier these days after intensive therapy.

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Me: Why do we fight so much?
Her: Because as long as you’re fighting I know you care.
Broke up with her on the spot.



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